Once the purview of Erotic Hypnosis, Tantric masturbation or Reiki attunement, Hands Free Orgasms are now available via mainstream orgasm coaching. There are Youtube videos with how-to’s for both men and women who want to experience orgasmic bliss without using their hands, fingers or sextoys. There are articles in Cosmopolitan, Glamour, Men’s Health and other top newsstand publications about experiencing HFOs. Select Reddit threads and subreddits are devoted to climaxing without touch. Redditors continually post links to free HFO videos here.

While I have induced hands-free orgasms via erotic hypnosis, a non-tactile climax probably won’t happen the first time (or even the second or third time) you try to achieve one. This type of hypno is what I call payoff hypnosis. It’s when a hypno subject expects a payoff, typically an orgasm. There is nothing wrong with a hypno orgasm or payoff hypnosis. However, expecting an instant hands free orgasm is unrealistic. The writer of the Cosmopolitan magazine piece decided to go back to “hands on” after multiple frustrating attempts to go “hands off.”

Take time to perfect your HFO via videos, mp3s, solo practice or during erotic hypnosis sessions. Most men have had hands-free orgasms otherwise known as “wet dreams” while sleeping. But it takes a lot more than an erotic dream to peak without penis stimulation.